| The Lending Library of the PFLAG - Bergen County, NJ Chapter | |||||||||
| Note: | Numbering of items is done based on the first letters of the first two major words in title of document, followed by two numbers (not starting with zero); if title has only one word, then first letter of word is followed by a dash and two digits (not starting with zero). In this way, items will be shelved close to alphabetically but ID can usually be surmised by title. | ||||||||
| Last revised: July 20, 2010 | To borrow an item, click on the green box in column 1 to request the librarian to have it ready at the next meeting.If 'xxx' is in message text, please fill in the name of the item -- until we get the full list programmed! | ||||||||
| Have | ID # | Title | Author | Category (if blue, click for more details) |
Copyright Date | Medium | Description | Remarks | I S B N |
| Y | BS71 | Be Smart About HIV | Glaxo Wellcome Co. | AIDS | 1996 | Pamphlet | Somewhat outdated basic info about AIDS | combined english and spanish booklet | |
| Y | BT11 | Borrowed Time | Monette, Paul | AIDS | B | Award winning book on a personal battle for life. (see BIOS/MEMOIRS) | |||
| Y | ITL1412 | In The Life: 524,000 and Counting | In The Life Media | AIDS | 5-Sep | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1412 - Report on 'the war on AIDS' | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | LW11 | Last Watch of the Night | Monette, Paul | AIDS | B | Sequel to Borrowed Time. | |||
| MO11 | My Own Country - A Doctor's Story |
Verghese, Abraham | AIDS | B | |||||
| Y | FS52 | NJ Buddies: Fundraising & Social Activities | New Jersey Buddies | AIDS | Pamphlet | Title says most of it … | |||
| Y | VT51 | Volunteer Training Program | New Jersey Buddies | AIDS | Pamphlet | Training programs for NJ Buddies volunteers. | |||
| Y | WL11 | Winter's Light | Preston, John | AIDS | B | ||||
| Y | AB11 | A Boy I Once Knew | Stone, Elizabeth | Biography / Memoir | B | What a teacher learned from her student. | |||
| Y | AB12 | A Boy I Once Knew | Stone, Elizabeth | Biography / Memoir | B | What a teacher learned from her student. | |||
| Y | AU11 | An Underground Life | Beck, Gad | Biography / Memoir | B | Memoirs of a gay Jew in Nazi Berlin. | |||
| Y | BA51 | Becoming a Man | Monette, Paul | Biography / Memoir | B | Half the life story of a superb writer at his best. | |||
| BT51 | Behind the Mask | Pallone, Dave & Steinberg, Alan | Biography / Memoir | B | My double life in baseball. | ||||
| Y | BS41 | Breaking the Surface | Louganis, Greg w/Marcus, Eric | Biography / Memoir | B | The struggles before and after the '88 Olympics. | |||
| Y | GO11 | Gay Olympian | Waddell, Tom & Schaap, Dick | Biography / Memoir | 14-Mar-05 | B | |||
| Y | H-11 | Heartlands | Rist, Darrel | Biography / Memoir | B | ||||
| Y | IL71 | Invisible Lives | Barrett, Martha Barron | Biography / Memoir | 1990 | Paperback | Lively and provocative, this book draws from more than 120 candid interviews with diverse women and provides a revealing look at what it is like to be a lesbian in America. For parents, children, friends - it offers a bridge to understanding. | 0-060973-31-5 | |
| Y | TT11 | Telling Tales Out of School | Jennings, Kevin | Biography / Memoir | B | ||||
| Y | TP11 | The Preacher's Son | Adams, Marc | Biography / Memoir | B | Story of gay Christian….. | see also video tape "Talking About: The Preacher's Son" |
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| Y | TP12 | The Preacher's Son | Adams, Marc | Biography / Memoir | B | Story of gay Christian….. | see also video tape "Talking About: The Preacher's Son" |
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| N | TS11 | The Shared Heart | Mastoon, Adam | Biography / Memoir | B | Portraits and stories celebrating lesbian, gay, and bisexual young people. | |||
| Y | UH11 | Uncommon Heroes | Sherman, Phillip & Bernstein, Samuel | Biography / Memoir | 1994 | Paperback | Heroes & role models "lighting candles." A celebration of heroes and role models for lesbian and gay americans. The men and women in this book have contributed to their communities and to society as a whole. Each of them shares a common thread of extraordinary courage. Their stories are transforming public perceptions of the gay and lesbian community. | An inch-thick large 8.5" x 11" horizontal format paperback with heavy, glossy paper. If you want to "name names" of impressive LGBT people, this is your reference source! | 0-964-17790-0 |
| Y | UH12 | Uncommon Heroes | Sherman, Phillip & Bernstein, Samuel | Biography / Memoir | 1994 | Paperback | Heroes & role models "lighting candles." A celebration of heroes and role models for lesbian and gay americans. The men and women in this book have contributed to their communities and to society as a whole. Each of them shares a common thread of extraordinary courage. Their stories are transforming public perceptions of the gay and lesbian community. | An inch-thick large 8.5" x 11" horizontal format paperback with heavy, glossy paper. If you want to "name names" of impressive LGBT people, this is your reference source! | 0-964-17790-0 |
| Y | W-11 | Wisecracker | Mann, William | Biography / Memoir | B | ||||
| BA41 | Bi Any Other Name | Hutchins, Loraine & Kaahumanu, Lani | BiSexuality | B | Anthology of personal stories. | ||||
| BP11 | Bisexual Politics | Tucker, Naomi | BiSexuality | B | Anthology of the works of activists, historians, movers & shakers. | ||||
| Y | WB21 | Women and Bisexuality | George, Sue | BiSexuality | B | ||||
| Y | DR11 | Daddy's Roommate | Willhaite, Michael | Children of Gays | B | ||||
| FV13 | Family Values | Children of Gays | VHS | PFLAG of New Jersey. | |||||
| Y | HH11 | Heather Has Two Mommies | Newman, Leslea | Children of Gays | B | Children's book. | |||
| Y | LF41 | (lost)Found | Adams, Marc | Coming Out | ©2005 | Paperback | Developing self acceptance. | This is the diary of one man's journey from fundamentalism to freedom; from self-denial to self-acceptance. | 1-889829-10-2 |
| Y | BS11 | Breaking the Silence -- Workshop | Student discussion | Coming Out | 3/13/1997 | VHS 45 mins |
Student discussion. | ||
| Y | CO61 | Coming Out in the Seventies | Altman, Dennis | Coming Out | Paperback | Altman looks at the tumultuous decade of the seventies with wit and insight. His essays give a fresh and thoughtful perspective on the family, liberation and education, cooptation, and literature. | Donated by a student who used this paperback for class; has notes and markings throughout the text. | 0-932870-05-8 | |
| Y | CO11 | Coming Out To Parents | Borhek, Mary V. | Coming Out | B | B | |||
| Y | CO12 | Coming Out to Parents (Revised) | Borhek, Mary V. | Coming Out | 1993 | P | Explores the fears and misgivings accompanying the revelation of sexual orientation to parents, providing suggestions on how and when to come out, what reactions to expect, and how to deal with the awkwardness that follows. Guides parents through the natural feelings of grief and loss and shows how understanding, compassion and insight can lead to an even deeper love between parent and the finally whole child. Includes new chapter on living in the age of HIV/AIDS and an expanded discussion of religious viewpoints on homosexuality that both exposes myths and reflects the most up to date theological perspectives on this volatile issue. | 0-829809-57-0 | |
| Y | CO21 | Coming Out, An Act of Love | Eichberg, Rob | Coming Out | B | ||||
| Y | CU11 | Cures, a Gay Man's Odyssey |
Duberman, Martin | Coming Out | B | A personal history of struggle (1950-70). | |||
| FF21 | Family & Friends Guide
to Sexual Orientation |
Powers & Ellis | Coming Out | B | |||||
| Y | FO11 | Family Outing | Bono, Chastity | Coming Out | B | ||||
| Y | FO12 | Family Outing | Bono, Chastity | Coming Out | B | ||||
| Y | HM11 | Hey Mom, Guess What! | Roberts, Shelly | Coming Out | B | "Warm-hearted approach for those with cold feet". | |||
| JT11 | Joining the Tribe | Due, Linnea | Coming Out | B | Growing up gay & lesbian in the 90s. | ||||
| Y | JT12 | Joining the Tribe | Due, Linnea | Coming Out | B | Growing up gay & lesbian in the 90s. | |||
| Y | OW31 | Out With It | Youth Communication | Coming Out | 1996 | Paperback | Gay & Straight Teens Write About Homosexuality | Young people today are aware of gays & lesbians in almost every area of their lives, yet they rarely get a chance to talk openly about it. Here they speak their own voices about it. | |
| Y | OY11 | Outing Yourself | Signorile, Michalangelo | Coming Out | B | 14 step program for.coming out (Lesbian or Gay). |
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| Y | OY12 | Outing Yourself | Signorile, Michalangelo | Coming Out | B | 14 step program for.coming out (Lesbian or Gay). |
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| Y | PC11 | Panel on "Coming Out Day," 1994. |
Coming Out | VHS | Status of gay issues. | ||||
| N | TB21 | The Best Little Boy in the World |
Reid, John | Coming Out | B | Very funny memoir. | |||
| Y | TB22 | The Best Little Boy in the World |
Reid, John | Coming Out | B | Very funny memoir. | |||
| Y | TB23 | The Best Little Boy in the World Grows Up |
Tobias, Andrew | Coming Out | B | Sequel to "The Best Little Boy in the World." Continuation of memoir, with author's real name. | |||
| Y | TC38 | The Original Coming Out Stories - Expanded Edition | Penelope, Julia Wolfe, Susan J. |
Coming Out | 1989 | Paperback | For many lesbians, the process of coming out remains an intensely emotional and often painful experience. This second edition shows that the processes we call "coming out" are only a little less difficult now. | 0-895943-39-5 | |
| Y | AG31 | All God's Children | Woman Vision Productions | families / coming out | 1996 | VHS | An inspiring illustration of the coming out process for families. Includes key endorsements from national leaders. | A documentary short about the Black Church's embracement of African American lesbians and gay men as dedicated members of its spiritual family. | |
| N | AU15 | An Unexpected Journey | families / coming out | 10/24/2005 | VHS | AN UNEXPECTED JOURNEY (Produced by the Denver Chapter of PFLAG, 1991, 28 minutes) Reviewed by Syd Jackowitz An underlying theme of the video is that being a parent of a gay or lesbian child can be challenging and eye opening. Most gay children grow up with feelings of being different and not knowing what to do with these feelings. When our children come out, our relationship is changed forever, but what we are left with can be wonderfully authentic. The video starts with an explanation of PFLAG and specifically the services provided by PFLAG/Denver. It continues with a discussion of homophobia and the problems with homosexuals learning about themselves in a homophobic environment. This is followed by various interviews with gay and lesbian youth and their parents discussing the coming out process and how parents deal with their kids coming out. As parents, when our children first come out, we are filled with guilt, shame, and anger, fearful of what others will think. But with help we can move past this and on to acceptance and advocacy. |
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| Y | BE11 | Big Eden - a small miracle | families / coming out | 28 mins | VHS | Big Eden PG13, Comedy Drama, 1hr 59min 2000 Arye Gross, Eric Schweig, Louise Fletcher ...more Arye Gross plays an up-and-coming artist who foregoes the convenience of big-city life for the charms of Montana in this drama, writer-director Thomas Bezucha's debut feature. On the eve of his first show at the Whitney Museum, Henry (Gross) hears news that his grandfather back home has had a stroke. Upon returning to his idyllic birthplace, however, Henry realizes that the old man isn't the only thing he has to tend to: There's the semi-closeted issue of his sexuality, which he longs to reveal to his clan -- as well as to his old high-school crush, Dean (Tim DeKay). Amidst all the angst, Henry fails to notice the ... Read more Arye Gross plays an up-and-coming artist who foregoes the convenience of big-city life for the charms of Montana in this drama, writer-director Thomas Bezucha's debut feature. On the eve of his first show at the Whitney Museum, Henry (Gross) hears news that his grandfather back home has had a stroke. Upon returning to his idyllic birthplace, however, Henry realizes that the old man isn't the only thing he has to tend to: There's the semi-closeted issue of his sexuality, which he longs to reveal to his clan -- as well as to his old high-school crush, Dean (Tim DeKay). Amidst all the angst, Henry fails to notice the advances of the sensitive Pike (Eric Schweig), an espresso-brewing outdoorsman who owns the town's general store and cooks meals for the stroke-addled grandpa Sam (George Coe). ~ Michael Hastings, All Movie Guide |
It's about a gay New Yorker who returns to his small hometown in Montana to take care of his sick grandfather. Closeted to the townspeople, he doesn't know that they already know he's gay and are determined to get him to "come out" and into their waiting arms. | ||
| Y | BE12 | Big Eden - a small miracle | families / coming out | VHS | Wolfe Video | ||||
| Y | TO21 | The Other Persuasion | Seymour Kleinberg | Fiction | 1977 | Paperback | Anthology of short fiction about gay men and women | ||
| Y | LP11 | Legal Proceedings (Gay Marriage) - Calif. | Gay Marriage | 14-Mar-05 | Paperback | Tentative Decision on Applications forWrit of Mandate and Motions for Summary Judgement | |||
| Y | SS11 | Same Sex Marriage: A civil debate |
Gill Foundation | Gay Marriage | 2/24/2004 | VHS | www.gillfoundation.org | ||
| SS21 | Same-Sex Unions in Premodern Europe | Boswell, John | Gay Marriage | B | |||||
| Y | TC11 | The Case for Same Sex Marriage |
Eskridge Jr., William | Gay Marriage | B | Moral & legal case for legalizing same-sex union. | |||
| Y | TP71 | Turning Point: Same Sex Marriage |
Gay Marriage | VHS | Same sex marriage. | ||||
| Y | WS51 | Why should you give a damn about gay marriage? | Davina Kotulski | Gay Marriage | |||||
| Y | AM11 | A More Perfect Union | Mohr, Richard D. | Gay Rights | B | Moral & ethical analysis of current gay concerns. A More Perfect Union (Richard D. Mohr, Beacon Press, Boston, MA. 1994) Chapters one and four give helpful understanding of the violence of words, actions, and discrimination that many gay and lesbian people face. Other chapters deal with issues that may be more debatable in the areas of public policy and social morality. |
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| Y | AM61 | Alternative Marriages | Inside Trenton (PBS) | Gay Rights | 2003 | CD | WNET-TV (PBS) "Inside Trenton" broadcast 6/7/2003 8:30-9:00am | ||
| CA11 | Claiming America's Promise | PFLAG Houston. | Gay Rights | VHS | CLAIMING AMERICA'S PROMISE Reviewed by Beckie Bauer "Claiming America's Promise" is the story of PFLAG Houston's cross-country bus trip from Houston to Washington, D. C. The trip started with only 30 people on the bus, but over 200 people arrived at the nation's capitol to lobby for equal rights in the workplace. This video will make you realize the power we, as parents, families, and friends, have in making this country a better place for our gay children. It made me proud to be a PFLAG Mom. |
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| Y | CH11 | Coming Home to America | Osborne, Torie | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| Y | CE11 | Created Equal | Nava & Dawdoff | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| Y | DF31 | Dissociating From Discrimination | Lambda Legal | Gay Rights | May-01 | Pamphlet | Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids. | Provides alternative organizations to the Boy Scouts, who insist on discrimination and ostracizing gay youth and leaders. | |
| Y | DF32 | Dissociating From Discrimination | Lambda Legal | Gay Rights | May-01 | Pamphlet | Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids. | Provides alternative organizations to the Boy Scouts, who insist on discrimination and ostracizing gay youth and leaders. | |
| Y | DF33 | Dissociating From Discrimination | Lambda Legal | Gay Rights | May-01 | Pamphlet | Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids. | Provides alternative organizations to the Boy Scouts, who insist on discrimination and ostracizing gay youth and leaders. | |
| Y | DF34 | Dissociating From Discrimination | Lambda Legal | Gay Rights | May-01 | Pamphlet | Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids. | Provides alternative organizations to the Boy Scouts, who insist on discrimination and ostracizing gay youth and leaders. | |
| Y | GW11 | Gay Issues in the Workplace |
McNaught, Brian | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| Y | HH21 | Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price |
Blumenfeld, Warren | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| not on cart | HH22 | Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price |
Blumenfeld, Warren | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| HM21 | How to Make The World a Better Place For Lesbians and Gays | Fahey, Una | Gay Rights | B | |||||
| MH11 | Making History. . . 1945-1990 |
Marcus, Eric | Gay Rights | B | The story of the fight by straight & gay Americans. | ||||
| Y | OW21 | Out At Work | Lambda Legal | Gay Rights | Paperback | A Guidefor LGBT Employees | |||
| N | PT21 | Pink Triangles | Mitchell, Pam | Gay Rights | 1980 | Paperback | Radical Perspectives on Gay Liberation | 0-932870-03-1 | |
| Y | SS31 | Scared Straight | Minor, Robert | Gay Rights | Paperback | ||||
| SS61 | Setting Them Straight | Berzon, Betty | Gay Rights | B | |||||
| Y | SS68 | Speech, Silence, Action | Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey | Gay Rights | |||||
| Y | SA11 | Stranger Among Friends | Mixner, David | Gay Rights | Paperback | ||||
| Y | SA12 | Stranger Among Friends | Mixner, David | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| Y | TB11 | Talk Back! | Woods, James w/ Jay | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| Y | TC41 | The Corporate Closet | Woods, James w/ Jay | Gay Rights | B | ||||
| HF11 | Hidden From History: Reclaiming the Gay and Lesbian Past | Duberman, Martin; Vicinus, Martha & Chauncey Jr., George | History | B | Collection of writings on the history of homosexuality. | ||||
| Y | HL21 | Homosexuality & Liberation | Mieli, Mario | History | Paperback | This book represents the most comprehensive presentation of the standpoint developed by the radical Italian gay movement, forming an important contribution to a specifically gay critique of society. Translated from Italian. | Donated by a student who used this paperback for class; has notes and markings throughout the text. | 0-907040-01-2 | |
| Y | HH31 | Homosexuality In History | Spencer, Colin | History | B | An overview in geography and time. | |||
| Y | OP11 | Out of the Past | Miller, Neil | History | B | Gay lesbian history. | |||
| Y | S-81 | Stonewall | Duberman, Martin | History | B | June 28, 1969, the story. | |||
| Y | S251 | Stonewall 25 - The Future is Ours |
History | 1994 | VHS 57 mins |
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| Y | TC21 | The Celluloid Closet | History | ||||||
| Y | TC52 | The Confession | McGreevey, James E. | History | 2006 | Hardcover | "In two decades of public life, the personal life I put on display was a blend of fact and fiction… I invented overlapping narratives about who I was, and contrived backstories that played better not just in the ballot box but in my own mind. And then, to the best of my ability, I tried to be the man in these stories... I lived not in one closet but in many." -- the author, former Gov. of New Jersey | Married, with children, McGreevey was governor of New Jersey until he resigned and "came out" at the same time. | 0-060898-62-3 |
| Y | TF51 | The Faggots & Their
Friends Between Revolutions |
Mitchell, Larry | History | Paperback | It's been a long time since the last revolutions and the faggots and their friends are still not free. | 0-930762-00-2 | ||
| Y | TF61 | The Future Is Ours - Stonewall 25 | History | VHS | |||||
| Y | TG22 | The Gay Metropolis | Kaiser, Charles | History | B | Decade-by-decade account (from 1940) of the rise & triumph of gay life. | |||
| Y | TP41 | Total Patient Care: the child with an intersex condition | Intersex society of north america | Intersex | VHS | www.isna.org | |||
| Y | CO15 | Coming Out Under Fire | Living Gay | 1994 | VHS | Coming out under fire, 71
min, 1994 Rex Reed discusses homosexuality; Gays in WWII; family drama about gay son with AIDS. Based on the book Coming out under fire, the history of gay men and women in World War Two by Allan Derube. Gay men and lesbians who were in the United States military service during World War II discuss their experiences with the response of the military establishment towards their sexual orientation |
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| Y | TM21 | Take Me To Paris, Johnny | Foster, John | Memoir | 1993 | Paperback | This is the rarest of things -- a book full of intelligence and laughter that tells of terrible events with intimacy and grace. | 1-86395-101-6 | |
| Y | AC51 | A Couple of Friends | Hopcke, Robert & Rafaty, Laura | Miscellaneous | B | The remarkable friendships between straight women and gay men. | |||
| Y | AF51 | A Face In The Crowd | Peterson, John & Bedogne, Martin | Miscellaneous | 2002 | Paperback | A book of professional quality photographs: Expressions of Gay Life in America. | glossy, heavy paper; many color photos; a fascinating book. | 0-971961-80-8 |
| Y | AB61 | Anything But Straight | Besen, Wayne R. | Miscellaneous | B | Unmasking the scandals and lies behind the Ex-Gay Myth. | |||
| Y | BP41 | Beyond Polarities | Siempre, Hasta | Miscellaneous | B | A queer handbook for all. | |||
| Y | BQ11 | Beyond Queer | Bawer, Bruce | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | FF11 | Friends and Family | Woog, Dan | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | GC21 | Garden Concervancy's Directory | Open Day's Directory | Miscellaneous | B | The Guide to visiting america's best private gardens | |||
| Y | GD21 | Gaydar! | Ray, Terry & LaFond, Larry | Miscellaneous | 2002 | DVD | Gaydar! It knows who you are. | "A funny story about
the necessity of ambiguity in life, with the added bonus of Charles Nelson
Reilly" -- Metro Weekly, Washington DC [ultra korny and exaggerated!! Imho, anyway… ur Librarian] |
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| Y | GU11 | Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian (anthology) | Singer, Bennett L. | Miscellaneous | B | Selections from writings of 56 great authors. | |||
| Y | GU12 | Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian (anthology) | Singer, Bennett L. | Miscellaneous | 1994 | Paperback | Selections from writings of 56 great authors. | Growing Up Gay is the first literary anthology geared specifically to gay and lesbian youth seeking to understand the gay and lesbian experience. | 1-565841-03-4 |
| Y | HW11 | Homophobia, a Weapon of Sexism |
Pharr, Suzanne | Miscellaneous | B | Why homophobia exists & how to combat it. | |||
| Y | HD21 | Homosexual Desire | Hocquenghem, Guy | Miscellaneous | P | Examines the relationship between the Oedipus notion and society's strict channelling of desire into compartments, the ambiguous ideological apparatus which serves this end and the specific link between the psychoanalytic and the political which it creates. | Donated by a student who used this paperback for class; has notes and markings throughout the text. | 0-850312-07-8 | |
| Y | IK21 | I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings | Angelou, Maya | Miscellaneous | Paperback | The moving and beautiful autobiography of a talented black woman. | Donated by a student who used this paperback for class; has notes and markings throughout the text. | 0-553-13904-5 | |
| Y | ITL21 | In the Life (PBS News 12/19/95) |
Miscellaneous | VHS | Homosexuality in the RC Church; George Stephanopolous and leadership in the gay community. | ||||
| Y | ITL11 | In The Life: TV magazine for gays |
Miscellaneous | Jun-95 | VHS | ||||
| Y | ITL1604 | In The Life: Breaking New Ground | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Jan-07 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1604 - Extraordinary people in the community. | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1508 | In The Life: Family Ties | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | May-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1508 - families, marriage, kids | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1610 | In The Life: Gender Revolution | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | July-07 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1610 - Sexuality and Gender | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1601 | In The Life: Inside Out | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Oct-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1601 - Diversity-15th season of ITL | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1606 | In The Life: Leading Ladies | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Mar-07 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1606 - Amazing Lesbians | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1512 | In The Life: My Life's Work | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Sep-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1512 - My Life's Work | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1511 | In The Life: Pieces of History | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Aug-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1511 - Pieces of History | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1509 | In The Life: Pride in Action | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | June-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1509 - Pride in Action | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1603 | In The Life: The Changing Face of AIDS | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Dec-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1603 - Diversity-15th season of ITL | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1607 | In The Life: The Last Closet | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Apr-07 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1607 - Sports is the last closet. | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1507 | In The Life: The Power of Literacy | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Apr-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1507 - LGBT topics in books | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | ITL1505A | In The Life: The Right to Love | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Feb-06 | CD | media screener copy | ||
| Y | ITL1505B | In The Life: The Right to Love | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | Feb-06 | DVD | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | ||
| Y | ITL1609 | In The Life: Voices of Pride | In The Life Media | Miscellaneous | June-07 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1609 - Courage and Diversity | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| N | LG21 | Lesbian & Gay Youth,
Care & Counseling |
Ryan, Caitlin & Futterman, Donna | Miscellaneous | B | Handbook on support needs of lesbian & gay youth. | |||
| Y | LM31 | Lesbianism Made Easy | Eisenbach, Helen | Miscellaneous | 1996 | Hardcover | Lesbians have their own culture, lingo and ways of doing things. This book helps smooth the potentially difficult transition that a would-be daughter of Sapho may face, while including lots of satire and humor. | 0-517704-75-7 | |
| Y | L-21 | Lesbiöt | Moore, Tracy | Miscellaneous | 1995 | Paperback | Israeli lesbians talk about sexuality, feminism, Judaism and their lives. | A collection of lifestories by contemporary Israeli lesbians, edited from their oral histories. 21 lively, intimate narratives reveal a wide range of experience. | 0-304331-58-9 |
| Y | LO21 | Life Outside | Signorile, Michelangelo | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | LG51 | Looking at Gay and Lesbian Life |
Blumenfeld, Warren & Raymond, Diane | Miscellaneous | B | Wide coverage of clinical & personal issues. | |||
| Y | NY11 | New York mag: Gay Baby Boom | Usborne, David | Miscellaneous | 2003 | magazine | How kids are shaking up gay life in the city | "New York" magazine, November 3, 2003 issue. | 0-028736-9 |
| Y | NJ21 | Nice Jewish Girls - A Lesbian Anthology | Beck, Evelyn Torton | Miscellaneous | 1989 | PB | Revised and Updated Edition. A mix of poetry, stories, history, analysis, autobiography, ritual and witness - woven together with the pride and anger of women recovering their identites and demanding to be recognized. Includes a new section on mother/daughter relationships, new material on Israel, new poetry and photographs. | 0-807079-05-7 | |
| Y | NJ11 | Not Just A Passing Phase | Appleby & Anastas | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | NT11 | Now That I'm Out, What Do I Do? |
McNaught, Brian | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | OM11 | On My Honor | Manahan, Nancy | Miscellaneous | 1997 | Paperback | Lesbians reflect on their scouting experience. | 1-886231-02-8 | |
| Y | PG21 | Positively Gay | Buzon, Betty & Leighton | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | PG22 | Positively Gay - Updated edition |
Buzon, Betty & Leighton | Miscellaneous | B | ||||
| Y | SY11 | So You Want to Be a Lesbian? | Tracey, Liz & Pokorny, Sydney | Miscellaneous | 1996 | Paperback | A mix of history, culture & facts on being lesbian. Tongue in cheek ! | Where the girls are - tips for cruising; Sports, vehicles and places to live; Essentials for a dyke lifestyle; Lesbian studies | 0-312144-23-7 |
| Y | VN11 | Virtually Normal | Sullivan, Andrew | Miscellaneous | B | An argument about homosexuality | |||
| Y | WS31 | When Someone you care about is gay |
Jim Auer | Miscellaneous | 1990 | Pamphlet | Strength and help for a friend | Abbey Press, St. Meinrad Archabbey 47577 | |
| Y | WG11 | Why Am I Gay? | Miscellaneous | VHS | Well done documentary of the current lives of both gay men and lesbians (including a gay cop). Statements of why people are gay, by leding medical practitioners ande reserchers. Includes segment on your adults undergoing "cure." Some difficult, some moving moments. | ||||
| Y | WG41 | Witchcraft and the Gay Counterculture | Evans, Arthur | Miscellaneous | Paperback | A radical view of western civilization and some of the people it has tried to destroy. | Donated by a student who used this paperback for class; has notes and markings throughout the text. | 0-915480-01-8 | |
| Y | WM61 | What Matters | Randi Driscoll | Music | 2002 | CD | A benefit CD for the Matthew Shepard Foundation | 6 minute vocal followed by voice message by Judy Shepard | |
| Y | HI21 | Hallowed Illusions | Donna Quick | Novel | 2006 | Paperback | Fiction: A gay man has strange dreams and discovers family secrets. | 0-595406-90-4 | |
| Y | AB21 | A Boy's Own Story | White, Edmund | Novel / Poetry | B | Bittersweet adolescence. | |||
| B-11 | Babycakes | Maupin, Armistead | Novel / Poetry | B | Books on tape. | ||||
| Y | SO21 | Significant Others | Maupin, Armistead | Novel / Poetry | B | Books on tape. | |||
| Y | SE11 | Summer at the End of the World |
Kingdon, Kirsten (Exec. Dir. PFLAG) | Novel / Poetry | B | Family deals w/gay son. Healing comes thru faith. | |||
| Y | TC61 | Tales of the City | Maupin, Armistead | Novel / Poetry | B | vol 1 in the Tales of the City series | |||
| Y | RF11 | Running Fiercely Toward A High Thin Sound | Katz, Judith | Novel / Poetry / Fiction | 1992 | Paperback | Nadine Pagan's dyke sister Jane wants to find her. Her lover Rose wants to marry her. And her mother Fay wants to forget her. All Nadine wants is to stop the buzzing in her head. | Follows Nadine's adventures as she escapes from her incendiary Jewish family into the lesbian town of New Chelm - and far beyond. It's Jewish magical lesbian realism, a good story, and a dynamic piece of writing. [from back cover!] | 1-563410-19-2 |
| Y | LS61 | Lesbian Short Stories, The Penguin Book of | Reynolds, Margaret | Novel / Poetry / Fiction / Humor | 1993 | P | This wide-ranging anthology brings together the work of 32 women from Britain, continental Europe and the Americas to express the depth and complexity of lesbian literature. Gives voice to the lesbian imagination. | 0-140240-18-7 | |
| Y | TH61 | The History of Lesbian Hair and other tales of bent life in a straight world | Dugger, Mary | Novel / Poetry / Fiction / Humor | 1996 | Paperback | An unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. An uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams and short takes - divided into Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. | 0-385480-37-7 | |
| N | AC11 | A Catholic Mother Looks at the Gay Child |
Davis, Jesse | Parent / Child / Family | B | ||||
| Y | AF11 | A Family & Friends Guide to Sexual Orientation | Powers & Ellis | Parent / Child / Family | B | "Bridges the divide between gay & straight" | |||
| N | AF21 | A Family Matter | Silverstein, Dr. Charles | Parent / Child / Family | B | Case histories, demonstrating ways in which other parents of homosexuals have dealt with their fears and guilt are included in this discussion of the problems that often follow the discovery of a son's or daughter's homosexuality. | |||
| Y | AJ11 | A Journey to Moriah | Murray, Rhea | Parent / Child / Family | B | A family battle for peace & acceptance in rural US. | |||
| Y | AO11 | Always Our Children | US Bishops Committee on Marriage & Family | Parent / Child / Family | 1998 | Pamphlet | A pastoral message to parents of homosexual children. | ||
| Y | AB51 | and baby.. Gay parenting magazine | Parent / Child / Family | 2003 | magazine | "redefining modern parenting" … for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and alternative families. | if you are a gay parent, or want to get an insight into what that is like, this is a good place to start. | ||
| Y | AE21 | Anyone and Everyone | Schutz, Susan Polis | Parent / Child / Family | 2007 | DVD | "A moving documentary of American families' most heart-wrenching and heart-warming moments." | "Connected by having a son or daughter who is gay, parents across the country discuss their experiences in the documentary Anyone and Everyone. In it, filmmaker Susan Polis Schutz depicts families from all walks of life. Diverse parents share intimate accounts of how their children revealed that they're homosexual and discuss the parental responses. The parents also talk about struggling with the pain their children have dealt with, such as not being accepted by relatives or friends and being ostracized by religious congregations." [from back cover] | #ZDV101 |
| Y | BA12 | Beyond Acceptance | Griffin, Carolyn & Wirth | Parent / Child / Family | 117 mins | B | |||
| N | BA11 | Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lesbians & Gays Talk About Their Experiences | Griffin, Carolyn & Wirth | Parent / Child / Family | 1996 | Paperback | Synopsis: "Every happy
family is alike, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way,"
wrote Leo Tolstoy. Families dealing with a child's homosexuality are
certainly forced by a homophobic culture to experience a whole range
ofunhappiness. Beyond Acceptance deals with a variety of issues facing
heterosexual parents of gay children, from facing what the neighbors will say
to worrying about AIDS and social ostracism to feeling angry and
guilt-ridden. Various people speak about how they came to their misinformed views about gayness ... [http://www.campusi.com/bookFind/asp/bookFindPriceLst.asp?prodId=0312167814] |
0-312167-81-4 | |
| Y | CO32 | Coming Out, Coming Home | LaSala, Michael | Parent / Child / Family | 2010 | Paperback | Helping families adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child | LaSala develops a model that comprehensively analyzes the family dynamics before, during and after a child's discloser of his or her sexual orientation. A great deal of insight is gained by comparing the stories of the children and parents interviewed in this book." | 978-0-231-14383-7 |
| FF31 | Family Fundamentals | Dong, Arthur | Parent / Child / Family | VHS | |||||
| Y | FT11 | Family Talk "Coming Out During the Holidays" | Parent / Child / Family | VHS | Coming out during the holidays Smith, Brad, Jane Ost. | ||||
| Y | FV11 | Family Values | Burke, Phylis | Parent / Child / Family | B | Woman's effort to adopt her partner's child. | |||
| Y | FV12 | Family Values | Parent / Child / Family | Nov. 1998 | VHS | PFLAG of New Jersey. | |||
| Y | HS11 | Homosexuality, The Secret a Child Dare Not Tell | Cantwell, Mary Ann | Parent / Child / Family | B | Healthy advice on how to deal with a fact of life. | |||
| Y | IC21 | Is It A Choice? | Marcus, Eric | Parent / Child / Family | 1993 | Paperback | Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians. | "The answers to all the questions you've ever had about homosexuality but were afraid to ask are finally in one book." -- Dear Abby | 0-062-50664-1 |
| not on cart | IC22 | Is It A Choice? | Parent / Child / Family | 21 mins | B | Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians. | |||
| not on cart | IC23 | Is It A Choice? | Marcus, Eric | Parent / Child / Family | 21 mins | B | Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians. | ||
| Y | LM21 | Love Makes a Family | Gillespie, Peggy & Kaiser, Gigi | Parent / Child / Family | B | Portraits of LGBT parents & their families. | |||
| Y | LE11 | Love, Ellen | DeGeneres, Betty | Parent / Child / Family | 1999 | Paperback | A Mother/Daughter Journey | 0-688176-88-7 | |
| Y | LS11 | Loving Someone Gay | Clark, Don | Parent / Child / Family | B | Gay therapist's guidance to gays, friends & family. | |||
| Y | LS12 | Loving Someone Gay | Clark, Don | Parent / Child / Family | 1997 | Paperback | Gay therapist's guidance to gays, friends & family. | one-inch thick ! | 0-890878-37-4 |
| Y | NL11 | Not Like Other Boys | Shyer, Marlene F. | Parent / Child / Family | B | Mother and son perspectives on a shared journey. | |||
| N | NT21 | Now That You Know | Fairchild & Hayward | Parent / Child / Family | B | What every parent should know about homosexuality. | |||
| Y | NT23 | Now That You Know | Fairchild & Hayward | Parent / Child / Family | 1979 | Paperback | What every parent should know about homosexuality. | "If any book can help parents understand wht a gay son or daughter is trying to share, this one will." -- San Fran Sentinel | 0-156-677-02-4 |
| Y | NT22 | Now That You Know (updated) | Fairchild & Hayward | Parent / Child / Family | updated edition | B | A parent's guide to understanding their gay and lesbian children. | ||
| Y | OE11 | One In Every Family | Wardlaw, Carole | Parent / Child / Family | B | Questions, answers and true life stories. | |||
| Y | OC11 | Out of the Closet, Into Our Hearts |
Siegel, Laura & Olson, Nancy | Parent / Child / Family | B | ||||
| Y | PB11 | Prayers For Bobby | Aarons, Leroy | Parent / Child / Family | B | Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son. | |||
| Y | PB12 | Prayers For Bobby | Aarons, Leroy | Parent / Child / Family | 1995 | Paperback | Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son. | 978-0-06-251123-2 | |
| Y | PB15 | Prayers For Bobby | Lifetime TV | Parent / Child / Family | 2008 | VHS | Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son. Mentions support of PFLAG for her crisis. | Home recording of February 2009 Lifetime TV premier broadcast. | |
| Y | RO41 | Ready or Not… They're Gay | Wagner, Paul & Hjordy | Parent / Child / Family | 2009 | Paperback | Stories from a mid-western family whose two sons are gay. | Paul & Hjordy Wagner know what it is like to have a child come out -- they have had that conversation, not once but twice. Both their sons, Brad and Andrew, are gay. The Wagners quickly embraced their sons' sexuality, but they soon realized that for other families the transition was often not as smooth. | 0-981546-28-5 |
| Y | S-61 | Spot | Tuttle, Todd | Parent / Child / Family | Paperback | A large print large
illustration story book for very young children. Teaches -- 1) Always be yourself; 2) Treat everyone with respect, especially if they are different; 3) We are all special because we are different. |
1-889829-08-0 | ||
| N | SP11 | Straight Parents, Gay Children |
Bernstein, Robert | Parent / Child / Family | 1999 | Paperback | Inspiring Families to live honestly and with greater understanding. | Growing Up Gay; Families Fighting the Myths; One Family Under Seige; Parents Speak Out; Changing Attitudes in Established Religion; A Survival Guide; A Call to Arms. | 1-560252-29-4 |
| Y | SP12 | Straight Parents, Gay Children |
Bernstein, Robert | Parent / Child / Family | 2003 | Paperback | Moving account of coming to terms with daughter's homosexuality, together with dramatic and engrossing stories of other parents who feel the experience has enriched their lives. | If you are the parent of a gay child, this book reassures you that you are in the best of company (including the VP of the USA). Lesbians, gay men, and their parents abound in every walk of life - including the clergy, business, law enforcement, sports, government, and on stage and screen. | 1-560254-52-1 |
| Y | TO41 | Talking It Over | Miller, Kay Mehl, Ph D. | Parent / Child / Family | B | ||||
| Y | FF41 | Faith in our Families | PFLAG, National | Parent / Child / Family / Religion | ©1997, 1999 | Booklet | Parents, families and friends talk about religion and homosexuality. | Discovering that a family member or friend is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered can pose new questions about your faith and may prompt you to re-evaluate beliefs you previously took for granted. These pages highlight stories of those who have faced similar questions and concerns. | |
| Y | AL51 | A Letter to Louise | Lowe, Bruce W. | Religion / Spirituality | 2001 | Booklet | A Biblical Affirmation of Homosexuality | http://www.GodMadeMeGay.com/Letter.htm | |
| BF81 | Bulletproof Faith | Chellew-Hodge, Candice | Religion / Spirituality | 2008 | Paperback | A Spiritual Survival Guide for Gay and Lesbian Christians | [Advance uncorrected proof copy] "A thoughtful guide for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Christians to stand firm in their faith, without fear, doubt or anger. 208 pages. | 978-0-470-27928-1 | |
| CS11 | Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality |
Boswell, John | Religion / Spirituality | B | |||||
| Y | CL11 | Courage to Love | Leckie, Will & Stopfel, Barry | Religion / Spirituality | 73 mins | B | 6
year battle by gay man to be Episcopal priest. For more backgroun info, click link in this box. |
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| Y | DD11 | Do's & Don'ts of Dealing with the Religious Right | Adams, Marc, Tuttle, Todd | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | DD12 | Do's & Don'ts of Dealing with the Religious Right | Adams, Marc, Tuttle, Todd | Religion / Spirituality | ©2000 | Booklet | Authors' experience as fundamentalist Baptists help educate others on how to be most effective when dealing with 'religious right' | See January 2007 Bergen PFLAG Newsletter for review of this booklet. | 1-889829-05-6 |
| Y | EE11 | Embracing The Exile | Fortunato, John E. | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | ER11 | Equal Rites | Cherry, Kittredge | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | FR51 | Fifteen Reasons why I have changed my mind about gays & lesbians in the church | Kreider, Roberta Showalter | Religion / Spirituality | 1995 | Booklet | One person's summary of her experiences | Produced originally by Lehigh Valley PFLAG | |
| Y | BT31 | For the Bible Tells me so | Karslake, Daniel | Religion / Spirituality | 2007 | DVD | Confronts the clash between religion and homosexuality. | ||
| Y | BT32 | For the Bible Tells me so | Karslake, Daniel | Religion / Spirituality | 2007 | DVD | Confronts the clash between religion and homosexuality. | Offering healing, clarity & understanding to anyone caught in the crosshairs of scripture and sexual identity, this landmark film "boldly takes on a loaded topic and examines it both intellectually and emotionally; the result may well leave you blinking away a few tears." (Seattle Times) | |
| Y | FS11 | Fundamentally Speaking | Tuttle, Todd | Religion / Spirituality | 1999 | 3-ring | Fundamentalist Christianity's Segregation of America | Deals with questions of religion vs homosexuality | 1-889829-04-8 |
| Y | GP11 | Gay Priest, An Inner Journey |
Boyd, Malcolm | Religion / Spirituality | B | Gay man & priest for 30 yrs. challenges church. | |||
| Y | GS11 | Gay Soul - Finding the heart of gay spirit and nature |
Thompson, Mark | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| GS21 | Gay Spirit - Myth and Meaning |
Thompson, Mark | Religion / Spirituality | B | |||||
| Y | IH21 | Is the Homosexual My Neighbor? | Mollenkott, Virginia | Religion / Spirituality | 2/24/2004 | B | Newly revised classic on love & acceptance. | ||
| Y | IH22 | Is the Homosexual My Neighbor? | Mollenkott, Virginia | Religion / Spirituality | B | Newly revised classic on love & acceptance. | |||
| Y | IH23 | Is the Homosexual My Neighbor? | Mollenkott, Virginia | Religion / Spirituality | HC | Newly revised classic on love & acceptance. | |||
| Y | LG11 | Lamda Gray | Adelman, Jeanne et al. | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | LN11 | Lesbian Nuns: Breaking Silence |
Curb, Rosemary & Manahan, Nancy | Religion / Spirituality | B | Stories by nuns describe paths to love & survival. | |||
| Y | RA21 | NJ Rainbow Coalition - Religious Directory | Hogen, Sarellen | Religion / Spirituality | 2002 | Booklet | Welcoming Houses of Worship and Meetings - NJ | Here is a listing of faith communities that have assured GLBT welcome. It is arrange alphabetically by county, then by town. | |
| Y | OT21 | Our Tribe - Queer Folks, God, Jesus, and the Bible | Wilson, Rev. Nancy | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | OT22 | Our Tribe - Queer Folks, God, Jesus, and the Bible | Wilson, Rev. Nancy | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| N | PG11 | Pastor, I Am Gay | Bess, Rev. Howard | Religion / Spirituality | B | A Baptist minister's stand for acceptance. | |||
| Y | QB21 | Queer Bible Commentary, The | Guest, Goss, West, Bohache | Religion / Spirituality | 2006 | Hardcover | The Queer Bible Commentary is the very first of its kind. It brings together the work of many scholars and pastors known for their interest in the areas of gender, sexuality and Biblical studies. Contributors focus specifically on those portions of the Bible that have particular relevance for readers interested in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues. The commentary includes an extensive bibliography that directs the reader to a full range of literature relating to queer interpretation of scripture. | 859 pages! Book is about 1-1/2 inches thick. | 0-334040-21-7 |
| Y | SS41 | Sensuous Spirituality | Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey | Religion / Spirituality | B | Helping gay & straight to sexual & spiritual whole. | |||
| SA21 | Stranger at the Gate | White, Mel | Religion / Spirituality | B | Evangelical minister, ex-ghost writer for Falwell, chronicles closeted years. | ||||
| Y | TO31 | Take Off the Masks | Boyd, Malcolm | Religion / Spirituality | B | Memoir of a writer, activist, priest/chaplin. | |||
| N | TC31 | The Children are Free | Rev. Jeff Miner | Religion / Spirituality | 2002 | Paperback | "Re-examining the
Biblical Evidence on Same-Sex Relationships" by the pastor of Jesus Metropolitan Community Church in Indianapolis. |
Anyone who has family
members and/or friends who condemn their gayness on religious grounds needs
to read this book; maybe even get a copy for themselves. Anyone who wants to challenge or clarify the religious arguments agains gays and lesbians needs this excellent, authoritative book in their hand. One of the best refutations I have come across. |
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| Y | TW11 | The Welcoming Congregation | Unitarian Universalist Assoc. | Religion / Spirituality | B | ||||
| Y | TB61 | Twice Blessed - On Being Lesbian or Gay and Jewish | Balka, Christie Rose, Andy |
Religion / Spirituality | 1989 | Paperback | A landmark collection of writings by and about lesbian and gay Jews who are maintaining ties to Jewish tradition and the Jewish community… growing up and coming out, interpreting key bible passages, a mother coming to terms with her son's gay identity, Jewish lesbian parenting, etc. | 0-807079-09-X | |
| N | WB11 | What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality | Helminiak, Daniel | Religion / Spirituality | B | Balanced study by Roman Catholic priest. (does god's word in the bible really condemn homosexuals?) | |||
| Y | WM21 | Women, Men and the Bible | Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey | Religion / Spirituality | Paperback | ||||
| Y | AN41 | As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who was raised as a girl | Colapinto, John | TransGender | 2001 | Paperback | In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would surgically alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine -- and a total failure. | 0-060-92959-6 | |
| L-91 | Luna - a novel | Julie Anne Peters | TransGender | 2004 | Paperback | What would you do if you were born a boy… but knew in your heart you were really a girl? | "Advance Reading Copy" | ||
| Y | ML21 | My Life in Pink | TransGender | VHS | A young boy feels like a girl trapped in boy's body. | Very touching; in french with english subtitles. | |||
| Y | OT11 | Our Trans Children (2nd edition) |
PFLAG | TransGender | Pamphlet | ||||
| Y | OT12 | Our Trans Children (2nd edition) |
PFLAG | TransGender | Pamphlet | ||||
| Y | TF21 | TransFamily: PFLAG's Transgender Network | PFLAG | TransGender | VHS | ||||
| Y | TF22 | TransFamily: PFLAG's Transgender Network | PFLAG | TransGender | VHS | ||||
| Y | TF31 | Transforming Families | Boenke, Mary | TransGender | B | Real stories about transgendered loved ones. | |||
| Y | AR22 | A really nice Prom mess | Sloan, Brian | Youth | 2005 | Paperback | Cameron doesn't want to go to the prom. Then an unexpected kiss changes everything.. Cam leaves the prom, but his night is far from over. Cam's night finally ends in the most unlikely of romances. | A bit of a slow start, but this is really a good read. (Jim Cooper) | 1-416-95389-2 |
| Y | GL81 | Anti-Gay Bias in American Schools | GLSEN | Youth | Pamphlet | Some statistics, plus "What does GLSEN do?" info | |||
| Y | BY21 | Be Yourself | PFLAG National | Youth | 2002 | Pamphlet | Q&A for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Youth | 26 pages | |
| Y | FM11 | Free Your Mind | Bass, Ellen & Kaufman, Kate | Youth | B | Practical guide for GLB and their allies. COPY MISSING. This should be reordered. It was popular. | |||
| Y | GB11 | Gay Baby Boom | New York magazine | Youth | 78 mins | How kids are shaking up gay life in the city | |||
| Y | HU11 | Hearing Us Out | Sutton, Roger | Youth | B | Demystifying the GLB experience. How to survive. | |||
| Y | ITL1504A | In The Life: The Principles of Youth | In The Life Media | Youth | Jan-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1504 - LGBT Youth | In .avi file format; must be played on a PC (not dvd player) | |
| Y | ITL1504B | In The Life: The Principles of Youth | In The Life Media | Youth | Jan-06 | DVD | PBS-TV In The Life episode 1504 - LGBT Youth | professional "promotional copy" donated to us by ITL | |
| Y | LU54 | Lambda Update: Out, Safe & Respected at School | Lambda Legal | Youth | 2005 | Booklet | Article in quarterly "Lambda | Update" magazine | Other articles in same issue deal with gay youth issues. | 1-058949-X |
| Y | RO21 | Reaching Out to Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Youth | GLSTN - Miami | Youth | 21 mins | VHS | Gay, Lesbian and Straight Teachers Network | ||
| Y | TT32 | Tale of Two Summers | Sloan, Brian | Youth | 2006 | Hardcover | Two teens blog their summer experiences; one gay and one not. | A ten year best friendship is put to the test when Chuck and Hal spend their first summer apart, but keep in touch with a blog diary. As both their relationships take some unexpected turns, they struggle to come to terms with their growing differences while trying to keep their friendship alive. | 0-689-87439-0 |
| Y | WS21 | What If Someone I Know Is Gay? |
Marcus, Eric | Youth | B | FAQ with answers & advice from an expert. | |||
| Y | AA11 | Angels in America - Part I | VHS | 2 copies ? | |||||
| Y | AA12 | Angels in America - Part II | VHS | ||||||
| Y | AO21 | Assault On Gay America | VHS | Frontline (PBS) correspondent explains roots of homophobia. | |||||
| Y | BM31 | Brokeback Mountain | Universal Studios #26316 | 2006 | DVD | Sweeping epic that explores the lives of two young men, a ranch hand and a rodeo cowboy, who meetin in the summer of 1963 and unexpectedly forge a lifelong connection. The complications, joys and heartbreak they experience provide a testament to the endurance and power of love. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver emotionally charged, remarkably moving performances. | Full frame format. Running time 2 hrs. 15 min. | 141703033-X | |
| Y | BM32 | Brokeback Mountain | Universal Studios #26316 | 2006 | DVD | Sweeping epic that explores the lives of two young men, a ranch hand and a rodeo cowboy, who meetin in the summer of 1963 and unexpectedly forge a lifelong connection. The complications, joys and heartbreak they experience provide a testament to the endurance and power of love. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver emotionally charged, remarkably moving performances. | Full frame format. Running time 2 hrs. 15 min. | 141703033-X | |
| Y | CC11 | Campus Community Guide | NJ Lesbian & Gay Coalition (NJLGC) | 1998 | Booklet | Student groups; info on gay-friendly HS and college campuses. | |||
| Y | CB61 | CBS 60 Minutes - segment on gays |
VHS | Segment on gays. | |||||
| Y | IG31 | I'm Gay - Two families face
their children's "coming out" Out - gay people talk about their lives; |
VHS | "Out" is about gay
peoples lives. "I'm Gay" is about 2 families and they plug PFLAG. |
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| Y | IE21 | It's Elementary: Talking about gay issues in school. | Chasnoff & Cohen | 78 mins | VHS | ||||
| Y | LA11 | Love in Action | VHS | PFLAG's 15th anniversary retrospective. | |||||
| N-11 | Networking | VHS | |||||||
| Y | OB11 | On Being Gay | McNaught, Brian | VHS | A conversation with Brian McNaught | ||||
| Y | PF11 | PBS- Frontline: Assault on Gay America |
1999 | VHS | |||||
| Y | SS51 | Serving in Silence | Capital Cities - ABC Inc. | 1993 | VHS | ||||
| Y | SS71 | Strength, Strategy and Our Future |
Lambda Legal | Winter 2005 | magazine | ||||
| Y | TA11 | Talking About: The Preacher's Son |
Adams, Mark | VHS | Narration by author of book of same name by Mark Adams. | The book is also available from the Library - see it listed under "The Preacher's Son" | |||
| Y | TA040720 | The Advocate magazine | 7/20/2004 | magazine | Gay Christian Lovers | ||||
| Y | TA040817 | The Advocate magazine | 8/17/2004 | magazine | |||||
| Y | TA040831 | The Advocate magazine | 8/31/2004 | magazine | Gays for President | ||||
| Y | TA040914 | The Advocate magazine | 9/14/2004 | magazine | |||||
| Y | TA040928 | The Advocate magazine | 9/28/2004 | magazine | A Gay Teen's Final Hours | ||||
| Y | TA041012A | The Advocate magazine | 10/12/2004 | magazine | Gay frat boys | ||||
| Y | TA041012B | The Advocate magazine | 10/12/2004 | magazine | Ten best companies for gays to work for. | ||||
| Y | TA041026A | The Advocate magazine | 10/26/2004 | magazine | John Kerry makes his case directly to gay and lesbian voters | ||||
| Y | TA041026B | The Advocate magazine | 10/26/2004 | magazine | John Kerry makes his case directly to gay and lesbian voters | ||||
| Y | TA041109 | The Advocate magazine | 11/9/2004 | magazine | The gay soldier who rescued
Jessica Lynch |
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| Y | TA041123A | The Advocate magazine | 11/23/2004 | magazine | How one brave woman's diagnosis will help thousands of lesbians facing breast cancer. | ||||
| Y | TA041123B | The Advocate magazine | 11/23/2004 | magazine | How one brave woman's diagnosis will help thousands of lesbians facing breast cancer. | ||||
| Y | TA041207 | The Advocate magazine | 12/7/2004 | magazine | Gay families gauge the impact of eleven new antigay marriage bans | ||||
| Y | TA041221 | The Advocate magazine | 12/21/2004 | magazine | Mayors for Marriage | ||||
| Y | TA061010 | The Advocate magazine | 10/10/2006 | magazine | Jim McGreevy: Happy at Last | ||||
| Y | TA061024 | The Advocate magazine | 10/24/2006 | magazine | Best of the Web | ||||
| Y | TG11 | The Gables' Rainbow Directory | Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ | 2003 | Paperback | Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community. | Copy #1 | ||
| Y | TG12 | The Gables' Rainbow Directory | Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ | 2003 | Paperback | Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community. | Copy #2 | ||
| Y | TG13 | The Gables' Rainbow Directory | Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ | 2003 | Paperback | Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community. | Copy #2 | ||
| Y | TN11 | The New Loving Someone Gay |
Don Clark | B | a gay therapist offers sensitive guidance to gay people and those who care about them | ||||
| Y | TT21 | The Truth About Jane | VHS | Mother & daughter struggle over her being a lesbian. | |||||
| Y | TT22 | The Truth About Jane | VHS | Mother & daughter struggle over her being a lesbian. | |||||
| Y | TW41 | The World of Normal Boys | K.M. Soehnlein | B | Heartfelt tale of growing up different in suburbs. | ||||
| TM11 | This Month on Network Q (August 1994) | VHS | Gay Games IV and Stonewall 25. | ||||||