The Lending Library of the PFLAG - Bergen County, NJ Chapter
	Note:	Numbering of items is done based on the first letters of the first two major words in title of document, followed by two numbers (not starting with zero); if title has only one word, then first letter of word is followed by a dash and two digits (not starting with zero).  In this way, items will be shelved close to alphabetically but ID can usually be surmised by title.
		Last revised:  November 17, 2010	To borrow an item, click on the green box in column 1 to request the librarian to have it ready at the next meeting.If 'xxx' is in message text, please fill in the name of the item -- until we get the full list programmed!
Have	ID #	Title	Author	Category (if blue, click for more details)	Copyright Date	Medium	Description
Y	BS71	Be Smart About HIV	Glaxo Wellcome Co.	AIDS	1996	Pamphlet	Somewhat outdated basic info about AIDS
Y	BT11	Borrowed Time	Monette, Paul	AIDS		B	Award winning book on a personal battle for life. (see BIOS/MEMOIRS)
Y	ITL1412	In The Life: 524,000 and Counting	In The Life Media	AIDS	5-Sep	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1412 - Report on 'the war on AIDS'
Y	LW11	Last Watch of the Night	Monette, Paul	AIDS		B	Sequel to Borrowed Time.
	MO11	My Own Country - A Doctor's Story	Verghese, Abraham	AIDS		B
Y	FS52	NJ Buddies: Fundraising & Social Activities	New Jersey Buddies	AIDS		Pamphlet	Title says most of it …
Y	VT51	Volunteer Training Program	New Jersey Buddies	AIDS		Pamphlet	Training programs for NJ Buddies volunteers.
Y	WL11	Winter's Light	Preston, John	AIDS		B
Y	AB11	A Boy I Once Knew	Stone, Elizabeth	Biography / Memoir		B	What a teacher learned from her student.
Y	AB12	A Boy I Once Knew	Stone, Elizabeth	Biography / Memoir		B	What a teacher learned from her student.
Y	AU11	An Underground Life	Beck, Gad	Biography / Memoir		B	Memoirs of a gay Jew in Nazi Berlin.
Y	BA51	Becoming a Man	Monette, Paul	Biography / Memoir		B	Half the life story of a superb writer at his best.
	BT51	Behind the Mask	Pallone, Dave & Steinberg, Alan	Biography / Memoir		B	My double life in baseball.
Y	BS41	Breaking the Surface	Louganis, Greg w/Marcus, Eric	Biography / Memoir		B	The struggles before and after the '88 Olympics.
Y	GO11	Gay Olympian	Waddell, Tom & Schaap, Dick	Biography / Memoir	14-Mar-05	B
Y	H-11	Heartlands	Rist, Darrel	Biography / Memoir		B
Y	IL71	Invisible Lives	Barrett, Martha Barron	Biography / Memoir	1990	Paperback	Lively and provocative, this book draws from more than 120 candid interviews with diverse women and provides a revealing look at what it is like to be a lesbian in America. For parents, children, friends - it offers a bridge to understanding.
Y	TT11	Telling Tales Out of School	Jennings, Kevin	Biography / Memoir		B
Y	TP11	The Preacher's Son	Adams, Marc	Biography / Memoir		B	Story of gay Christian…..
Y	TP12	The Preacher's Son	Adams, Marc	Biography / Memoir		B	Story of gay Christian…..
N	TS11	The Shared Heart	Mastoon, Adam	Biography / Memoir		B	Portraits and stories celebrating lesbian, gay, and bisexual young people.
Y	UH11	Uncommon Heroes	Sherman, Phillip & Bernstein, Samuel	Biography / Memoir	1994	Paperback	Heroes & role models "lighting candles." A celebration of heroes and role models for lesbian and gay americans. The men and women in this book have contributed to their communities and to society as a whole. Each of them shares a common thread of extraordinary courage. Their stories are transforming public perceptions of the gay and lesbian community.
Y	UH12	Uncommon Heroes	Sherman, Phillip & Bernstein, Samuel	Biography / Memoir	1994	Paperback	Heroes & role models "lighting candles." A celebration of heroes and role models for lesbian and gay americans. The men and women in this book have contributed to their communities and to society as a whole. Each of them shares a common thread of extraordinary courage. Their stories are transforming public perceptions of the gay and lesbian community.
Y	W-11	Wisecracker	Mann, William	Biography / Memoir		B
	BA41	Bi Any Other Name	Hutchins, Loraine & Kaahumanu, Lani	BiSexuality		B	Anthology of personal stories.
	BP11	Bisexual Politics	Tucker, Naomi	BiSexuality		B	Anthology of the works of activists, historians, movers & shakers.
Y	WB21	Women and Bisexuality	George, Sue	BiSexuality		B
Y	DR11	Daddy's Roommate	Willhaite, Michael	Children of Gays		B
Y	FV13	Family Values		Children of Gays		VHS	PFLAG of New Jersey.
Y	HH11	Heather Has Two Mommies	Newman, Leslea	Children of Gays		B	Children's book.
Y	LF41	(lost)Found	Adams, Marc	Coming Out	©2005	Paperback	Developing self acceptance.
Y	BS11	Breaking the Silence -- Workshop	Student discussion	Coming Out	3/13/1997	VHS 45 mins	Student discussion.
Y	CO61	Coming Out in the Seventies	Altman, Dennis	Coming Out		Paperback	Altman looks at the tumultuous decade of the seventies with wit and insight. His essays give a fresh and thoughtful perspective on the family, liberation and education, cooptation, and literature.
Y	CO11	Coming Out To Parents	Borhek, Mary V.	Coming Out		B	B
Y	CO12	Coming Out to Parents (Revised)	Borhek, Mary V.	Coming Out	1993	P	Explores the fears and misgivings accompanying the revelation of sexual orientation to parents, providing suggestions on how and when to come out, what reactions to expect, and how to deal with the awkwardness that follows. Guides parents through the natural feelings of grief and loss and shows how understanding, compassion and insight can lead to an even deeper love between parent and the finally whole child. Includes new chapter on living in the age of HIV/AIDS and an expanded discussion of religious viewpoints on homosexuality that both exposes myths and reflects the most up to date theological perspectives on this volatile issue.
Y	CO21	Coming Out, An Act of Love	Eichberg, Rob	Coming Out		B
Y	CU11	Cures, a Gay Man's Odyssey	Duberman, Martin	Coming Out		B	A personal history of struggle (1950-70).
	FF21	Family & Friends Guide to Sexual Orientation	Powers & Ellis	Coming Out		B
Y	FO11	Family Outing	Bono, Chastity	Coming Out		B
Y	FO12	Family Outing	Bono, Chastity	Coming Out		B
Y	HM11	Hey Mom, Guess What!	Roberts, Shelly	Coming Out		B	"Warm-hearted approach for those with cold feet".
Y	IN41	It's Not About You	Adams, Marc	Coming Out	2010	Paperback	A practical guide for family & friends of those coming out, this book also includes a guide for those coming out on how to live life courageously, confidently and consistently.
Y	IN42	It's Not About You	Adams, Marc	Coming Out	2010	Paperback	A practical guide for family & friends of those coming out, this book also includes a guide for those coming out on how to live life courageously, confidently and consistently.
	JT11	Joining the Tribe	Due, Linnea	Coming Out		B	Growing up gay & lesbian in the 90s.
Y	JT12	Joining the Tribe	Due, Linnea	Coming Out		B	Growing up gay & lesbian in the 90s.
Y	OW31	Out With It	Youth Communication	Coming Out	1996	Paperback	Gay & Straight Teens Write About Homosexuality
Y	OY11	Outing Yourself	Signorile, Michalangelo	Coming Out		B	14 step program for.coming out (Lesbian or Gay).
Y	OY12	Outing Yourself	Signorile, Michalangelo	Coming Out		B	14 step program for.coming out (Lesbian or Gay).
Y	PC11	Panel on "Coming Out Day," 1994.		Coming Out		VHS	Status of gay issues.
Y	RG41	Resource Guide to Coming Out	Human Rights Campaign	Coming Out		Booklet	Every year on October 11th, National Coming Out Day, the HRC sponsors public education events in which thousands of high school and college students participate.
N	TB21	The Best Little Boy in the World	Reid, John	Coming Out		B	Very funny memoir.
Y	TB22	The Best Little Boy in the World	Reid, John	Coming Out		B	Very funny memoir.
Y	TB23	The Best Little Boy in the World Grows Up	Tobias, Andrew	Coming Out		B	Sequel to "The Best Little Boy in the World."  Continuation of memoir, with author's real name.
Y	TC38	The Original Coming Out Stories - Expanded Edition	Penelope, Julia Wolfe, Susan J.	Coming Out	1989	Paperback	For many lesbians, the process of coming out remains an intensely emotional and often painful experience. This second edition shows that the processes we call "coming out" are only a little less difficult now.
Y	AG31	All God's Children	Woman Vision Productions	families / coming out	1996	VHS	An inspiring illustration of the coming out process for families.  Includes key endorsements from national leaders.
Y	AU15	An Unexpected Journey		families / coming out	10/24/2005	VHS	AN UNEXPECTED JOURNEY (Produced by the Denver Chapter of PFLAG, 1991, 28 minutes) Reviewed by Syd Jackowitz An underlying theme of the video is that being a parent of a gay or lesbian child can be challenging and eye opening. Most gay children grow up with feelings of being different and not knowing what to do with these feelings. When our children come out, our relationship is changed forever, but what we are left with can be wonderfully authentic. The video starts with an explanation of PFLAG and specifically the services provided by PFLAG/Denver. It continues with a discussion of homophobia and the problems with homosexuals learning about themselves in a homophobic environment. This is followed by various interviews with gay and lesbian youth and their parents discussing the coming out process and how parents deal with their kids coming out. As parents, when our children first come out, we are filled with guilt, shame, and anger, fearful of what others will think. But with help we can move past this and on to acceptance and advocacy.
Y	BE11	Big Eden - a small miracle		families / coming out	28 mins	VHS	Big Eden PG13, Comedy Drama, 1hr 59min 2000 Arye Gross, Eric Schweig, Louise Fletcher  ...more   Arye Gross plays an up-and-coming artist who foregoes the convenience of big-city life for the charms of Montana in this drama, writer-director Thomas Bezucha's debut feature. On the eve of his first show at the Whitney Museum, Henry (Gross) hears news that his grandfather back home has had a stroke. Upon returning to his idyllic birthplace, however, Henry realizes that the old man isn't the only thing he has to tend to: There's the semi-closeted issue of his sexuality, which he longs to reveal to his clan -- as well as to his old high-school crush, Dean (Tim DeKay). Amidst all the angst, Henry fails to notice the ... Read more Arye Gross plays an up-and-coming artist who foregoes the convenience of big-city life for the charms of Montana in this drama, writer-director Thomas Bezucha's debut feature. On the eve of his first show at the Whitney Museum, Henry (Gross) hears news that his grandfather back home has had a stroke. Upon returning to his idyllic birthplace, however, Henry realizes that the old man isn't the only thing he has to tend to: There's the semi-closeted issue of his sexuality, which he longs to reveal to his clan -- as well as to his old high-school crush, Dean (Tim DeKay). Amidst all the angst, Henry fails to notice the advances of the sensitive Pike (Eric Schweig), an espresso-brewing outdoorsman who owns the town's general store and cooks meals for the stroke-addled grandpa Sam (George Coe). ~ Michael Hastings, All Movie Guide
Y	BE12	Big Eden - a small miracle		families / coming out		VHS	Wolfe Video
Y	TO21	The Other Persuasion	Seymour Kleinberg	Fiction	1977	Paperback	Anthology of short fiction about gay men and women
Y	LP11	Legal Proceedings (Gay Marriage) - Calif.		Gay Marriage	14-Mar-05	Paperback	Tentative Decision on Applications forWrit of Mandate and Motions for Summary Judgement
Y	SS11	Same Sex Marriage: A civil debate	Gill Foundation	Gay Marriage	2/24/2004	VHS	www.gillfoundation.org
	SS21	Same-Sex Unions in Premodern Europe	Boswell, John	Gay Marriage		B
Y	TC11	The Case for Same Sex Marriage	Eskridge Jr., William	Gay Marriage		B	Moral & legal case for legalizing same-sex union.
Y	TP71	Turning Point: Same Sex Marriage		Gay Marriage		VHS	Same sex marriage.
Y	WS51	Why should you give a damn about gay marriage?	Davina Kotulski	Gay Marriage
Y	AM11	A More Perfect Union	Mohr, Richard D.	Gay Rights		B	Moral & ethical analysis of current gay concerns. A More Perfect Union (Richard D. Mohr, Beacon Press, Boston, MA. 1994) Chapters one and four give helpful understanding of the violence of words, actions, and discrimination that many gay and lesbian people face. Other chapters deal with issues that may be more debatable in the areas of public policy and social morality.
Y	AM61	Alternative Marriages	Inside Trenton (PBS)	Gay Rights	2003	CD	WNET-TV (PBS) "Inside Trenton" broadcast 6/7/2003 8:30-9:00am
	CA11	Claiming America's Promise	PFLAG Houston.	Gay Rights		VHS	CLAIMING AMERICA'S PROMISE Reviewed by Beckie Bauer "Claiming America's Promise" is the story of PFLAG Houston's cross-country bus trip from Houston to Washington, D. C. The trip started with only 30 people on the bus, but over 200 people arrived at the nation's capitol to lobby for equal rights in the workplace. This video will make you realize the power we, as parents, families, and friends, have in making this country a better place for our gay children. It made me proud to be a PFLAG Mom.
Y	CH11	Coming Home to America	Osborne, Torie	Gay Rights		B
Y	CE11	Created Equal	Nava & Dawdoff	Gay Rights		B
Y	DF31	Dissociating From Discrimination	Lambda Legal	Gay Rights	May-01	Pamphlet	Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids.
Y	DF32	Dissociating From Discrimination	Lambda Legal	Gay Rights	May-01	Pamphlet	Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids.
Y	DF33	Dissociating From Discrimination	Lambda Legal	Gay Rights	May-01	Pamphlet	Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids.
Y	DF34	Dissociating From Discrimination	Lambda Legal	Gay Rights	May-01	Pamphlet	Public entities, organizations & corporations choosing to teach respect for all kids.
Y	GW11	Gay Issues in the Workplace	McNaught, Brian	Gay Rights		B
Y	HH21	Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price	Blumenfeld, Warren	Gay Rights		B
not on cart	HH22	Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price	Blumenfeld, Warren	Gay Rights		B
	HM21	How to Make The World a Better Place For Lesbians and Gays	Fahey, Una	Gay Rights		B
	MH11	Making History. . . 1945-1990	Marcus, Eric	Gay Rights		B	The story of the fight by straight & gay Americans.
Y	OW21	Out At Work	Lambda Legal	Gay Rights		Paperback	A Guidefor LGBT Employees
N	PT21	Pink Triangles	Mitchell, Pam	Gay Rights	1980	Paperback	Radical Perspectives on Gay Liberation
Y	SS31	Scared Straight	Minor, Robert	Gay Rights		Paperback
	SS61	Setting Them Straight	Berzon, Betty	Gay Rights		B
Y	SS68	Speech, Silence, Action	Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey	Gay Rights
Y	SA11	Stranger Among Friends	Mixner, David	Gay Rights		Paperback
Y	SA12	Stranger Among Friends	Mixner, David	Gay Rights		B
Y	TB11	Talk Back!	Woods, James w/ Jay	Gay Rights		B
Y	TC41	The Corporate Closet	Woods, James w/ Jay	Gay Rights		B
	HF11	Hidden From History: Reclaiming the Gay and Lesbian Past	Duberman, Martin; Vicinus, Martha & Chauncey Jr., George	History		B	Collection of writings on the history of homosexuality.
Y	HL21	Homosexuality & Liberation	Mieli, Mario	History		Paperback	This book represents the most comprehensive presentation of the standpoint developed by the radical Italian gay movement, forming an important contribution to a specifically gay critique of society. Translated from Italian.
Y	HH31	Homosexuality In History	Spencer, Colin	History		B	An overview in geography and time.
Y	OP11	Out of the Past	Miller, Neil	History		B	Gay  lesbian history.
Y	S-81	Stonewall	Duberman, Martin	History		B	June 28, 1969, the story.
Y	S251	Stonewall 25 - The Future is Ours		History	1994	VHS 57 mins
Y	TC21	The Celluloid Closet		History
Y	TC52	The Confession	McGreevey, James E.	History	2006	Hardcover	"In two decades of public life, the personal life I put on display was a blend of fact and fiction… I invented overlapping narratives about who I was, and contrived backstories that played better not just in the ballot box but in my own mind. And then, to the best of my ability, I tried to be the man in these stories... I lived not in one closet but in many." -- the author, former Gov. of New Jersey
Y	TF51	The Faggots & Their Friends Between Revolutions	Mitchell, Larry	History		Paperback	It's been a long time since the last revolutions and the faggots and their friends are still not free.
Y	TF61	The Future Is Ours - Stonewall 25		History		VHS
Y	TG22	The Gay Metropolis	Kaiser, Charles	History		B	Decade-by-decade account (from 1940) of the rise & triumph of gay life.
Y	TP41	Total Patient Care: the child with an intersex condition	Intersex society of north america	Intersex		VHS	www.isna.org
Y	WL41	The Well of Loneliness	Hall, Radclyffe	Lesbian Fiction	1956	Paperback	Originally published in 1928, this is the timeless story of a lesbian couple's struggle to be accepted by "polite" society… Although decades have passed, the issues of prejudice and persecution that it addresses remain sadly relevant today.
Y	CO15	Coming Out Under Fire		Living Gay	1994	VHS	Coming out under fire, 71 min, 1994 Rex Reed discusses homosexuality; Gays in WWII; family drama about gay son with AIDS. Based on the book Coming out under fire, the history of gay men and women in World War Two by Allan Derube. Gay men and lesbians who were in the United States military service during World War II discuss their experiences with the response of the military establishment towards their sexual orientation
Y	TM21	Take Me To Paris, Johnny	Foster, John	Memoir	1993	Paperback	This is the rarest of things -- a book full of intelligence and laughter that tells of terrible events with intimacy and grace.
Y	AC51	A Couple of Friends	Hopcke, Robert & Rafaty, Laura	Miscellaneous		B	The remarkable friendships between straight women and gay men.
Y	AF51	A Face In The Crowd	Peterson, John & Bedogne, Martin	Miscellaneous	2002	Paperback	A book of professional quality photographs: Expressions of Gay Life in America.
Y	AB61	Anything But Straight	Besen, Wayne R.	Miscellaneous		B	Unmasking the scandals and lies behind the Ex-Gay Myth.
Y	BP41	Beyond Polarities	Siempre, Hasta	Miscellaneous		B	A queer handbook for all.
Y	BQ11	Beyond Queer	Bawer, Bruce	Miscellaneous		B
Y	FF11	Friends and Family	Woog, Dan	Miscellaneous		B
Y	GC21	Garden Concervancy's Directory	Open Day's Directory	Miscellaneous		B	The Guide to visiting america's best private gardens
Y	GD21	Gaydar!	Ray, Terry & LaFond, Larry	Miscellaneous	2002	DVD	Gaydar! It knows who you are.
Y	GU11	Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian (anthology)	Singer, Bennett L.	Miscellaneous		B	Selections from writings of 56 great authors.
Y	GU12	Growing Up Gay/Growing Up Lesbian (anthology)	Singer, Bennett L.	Miscellaneous	1994	Paperback	Selections from writings of 56 great authors.
Y	HW11	Homophobia, a Weapon of Sexism	Pharr, Suzanne	Miscellaneous		B	Why homophobia exists & how to combat it.
Y	HD21	Homosexual Desire	Hocquenghem, Guy	Miscellaneous		P	Examines the relationship between the Oedipus notion and society's strict channelling of desire into compartments, the ambiguous ideological apparatus which serves this end and the specific link between the psychoanalytic and the political which it creates.
Y	IK21	I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings	Angelou, Maya	Miscellaneous		Paperback	The moving and beautiful autobiography of a talented black woman.
Y	ITL21	In the Life (PBS News 12/19/95)		Miscellaneous		VHS	Homosexuality in the RC Church; George Stephanopolous and leadership in the gay community.
Y	ITL11	In The Life: TV magazine for gays		Miscellaneous	Jun-95	VHS
Y	ITL1604	In The Life: Breaking New Ground	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Jan-07	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1604 - Extraordinary people in the community.
Y	ITL1508	In The Life: Family Ties	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	May-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1508 - families, marriage, kids
Y	ITL1610	In The Life: Gender Revolution	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	July-07	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1610 - Sexuality and Gender
Y	ITL1601	In The Life: Inside Out	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Oct-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1601 - Diversity-15th season of ITL
Y	ITL1606	In The Life: Leading Ladies	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Mar-07	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1606 - Amazing Lesbians
Y	ITL1512	In The Life: My Life's Work	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Sep-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1512 - My Life's Work
Y	ITL1511	In The Life: Pieces of History	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Aug-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1511 - Pieces of History
Y	ITL1509	In The Life: Pride in Action	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	June-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1509 - Pride in Action
Y	ITL1603	In The Life: The Changing Face of AIDS	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Dec-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1603 - Diversity-15th season of ITL
Y	ITL1607	In The Life: The Last Closet	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Apr-07	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1607 - Sports is the last closet.
Y	ITL1507	In The Life: The Power of Literacy	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Apr-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1507 - LGBT topics in books
Y	ITL1505A	In The Life: The Right to Love	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Feb-06	CD
Y	ITL1505B	In The Life: The Right to Love	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	Feb-06	DVD
Y	ITL1609	In The Life: Voices of Pride	In The Life Media	Miscellaneous	June-07	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1609 - Courage and Diversity
N	LG21	Lesbian & Gay Youth, Care & Counseling	Ryan, Caitlin & Futterman, Donna	Miscellaneous		B	Handbook on support needs of lesbian & gay youth.
Y	LM31	Lesbianism Made Easy	Eisenbach, Helen	Miscellaneous	1996	Hardcover	Lesbians have their own culture, lingo and ways of doing things. This book helps smooth the potentially difficult transition that a would-be daughter of Sapho may face, while including lots of satire and humor.
Y	L-21	Lesbiöt	Moore, Tracy	Miscellaneous	1995	Paperback	Israeli lesbians talk about sexuality, feminism, Judaism and their lives.
Y	LO21	Life Outside	Signorile, Michelangelo	Miscellaneous		B
Y	LG51	Looking at Gay and Lesbian Life	Blumenfeld, Warren & Raymond, Diane	Miscellaneous		B	Wide coverage of clinical & personal issues.
Y	NY11	New York mag: Gay Baby Boom	Usborne, David	Miscellaneous	2003	magazine	How kids are shaking up gay life in the city
Y	NJ21	Nice Jewish Girls - A Lesbian Anthology	Beck, Evelyn Torton	Miscellaneous	1989	PB	Revised and Updated Edition. A mix of poetry, stories, history, analysis, autobiography, ritual and witness - woven together with the pride and anger of women recovering their identites and demanding to be recognized. Includes a new section on mother/daughter relationships, new material on Israel, new poetry and photographs.
Y	NJ11	Not Just A Passing Phase	Appleby & Anastas	Miscellaneous		B
Y	NT11	Now That I'm Out, What Do I Do?	McNaught, Brian	Miscellaneous		B
Y	OM11	On My Honor	Manahan, Nancy	Miscellaneous	1997	Paperback	Lesbians reflect on their scouting experience.
Y	PG21	Positively Gay	Buzon, Betty & Leighton	Miscellaneous		B
Y	PG22	Positively Gay - Updated edition	Buzon, Betty & Leighton	Miscellaneous		B
Y	SY11	So You Want to Be a Lesbian?	Tracey, Liz & Pokorny, Sydney	Miscellaneous	1996	Paperback	A mix of history, culture & facts on being lesbian. Tongue in cheek !
Y	VN11	Virtually Normal	Sullivan, Andrew	Miscellaneous		B	An argument about homosexuality
Y	WS31	When Someone you care about is gay	Jim Auer	Miscellaneous	1990	Pamphlet	Strength and help for a friend
Y	WG11	Why Am I Gay?		Miscellaneous		VHS	Well done documentary of the current lives of both gay men and lesbians (including a gay cop). Statements of why people are gay, by leding medical practitioners ande reserchers. Includes segment on your adults undergoing "cure." Some difficult, some moving moments.
Y	WG41	Witchcraft and the Gay Counterculture	Evans, Arthur	Miscellaneous		Paperback	A radical view of western civilization and some of the people it has tried to destroy.
Y	WM61	What Matters	Randi Driscoll	Music	2002	CD	A benefit CD for the Matthew Shepard Foundation
Y	HI21	Hallowed Illusions	Donna Quick	Novel	2006	Paperback	Fiction: A gay man has strange dreams and discovers family secrets.
Y	AB21	A Boy's Own Story	White, Edmund	Novel / Poetry		B	Bittersweet adolescence.
	B-11	Babycakes	Maupin, Armistead	Novel / Poetry		B	Books on tape.
Y	SO21	Significant Others	Maupin, Armistead	Novel / Poetry		Cassette	Books on tape.
Y	SE11	Summer at the End of the World	Kingdon, Kirsten (Exec. Dir. PFLAG)	Novel / Poetry		B	Family deals w/gay son.  Healing comes thru faith.
Y	TC61	Tales of the City	Maupin, Armistead	Novel / Poetry		B	vol 1 in the Tales of the City series
Y	RF11	Running Fiercely Toward A High Thin Sound	Katz, Judith	Novel / Poetry / Fiction	1992	Paperback	Nadine Pagan's dyke sister Jane wants to find her. Her lover Rose wants to marry her. And her mother Fay wants to forget her. All Nadine wants is to stop the buzzing in her head.
Y	LS61	Lesbian Short Stories, The Penguin Book of	Reynolds, Margaret	Novel / Poetry / Fiction / Humor	1993	P	This wide-ranging anthology brings together the work of 32 women from Britain, continental Europe and the Americas to express the depth and complexity of lesbian literature. Gives voice to the lesbian imagination.
Y	TH61	The History of Lesbian Hair and other tales of bent life in a straight world	Dugger, Mary	Novel / Poetry / Fiction / Humor	1996	Paperback	An unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. An uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams and short takes - divided into Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.
N	AC11	A Catholic Mother Looks at the Gay Child	Davis, Jesse	Parent / Child / Family		B
Y	AF11	A Family & Friends Guide to Sexual Orientation	Powers & Ellis	Parent / Child / Family		B	"Bridges the divide between gay & straight"
N	AF21	A Family Matter	Silverstein, Dr. Charles	Parent / Child / Family		B	Case histories, demonstrating ways in which other parents of homosexuals have dealt with their fears and guilt are included in this discussion of the problems that often follow the discovery of a son's or daughter's homosexuality.
Y	AJ11	A Journey to Moriah	Murray, Rhea	Parent / Child / Family		B	A family battle for peace & acceptance in rural US.
Y	AO11	Always Our Children	US Bishops Committee on Marriage & Family	Parent / Child / Family	1998	Pamphlet	A pastoral message to parents of homosexual children.
Y	AB51	and baby.. Gay parenting magazine		Parent / Child / Family	2003	magazine	"redefining modern parenting" … for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and alternative families.
Y	AE21	Anyone and Everyone	Schutz, Susan Polis	Parent / Child / Family	2007	DVD	"A moving documentary of American families' most heart-wrenching and heart-warming moments."
Y	BA12	Beyond Acceptance	Griffin, Carolyn & Wirth	Parent / Child / Family	117 mins	B
Y	BA11	Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lesbians & Gays Talk About Their Experiences	Griffin, Carolyn & Wirth	Parent / Child / Family	1996	Paperback	Synopsis: "Every happy family is alike, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way," wrote Leo Tolstoy. Families dealing with a child's homosexuality are certainly forced by a homophobic culture to experience a whole range ofunhappiness. Beyond Acceptance deals with a variety of issues facing heterosexual parents of gay children, from facing what the neighbors will say to worrying about AIDS and social ostracism to feeling angry and guilt-ridden. Various people speak about how they came to their misinformed views about gayness ... [http://www.campusi.com/bookFind/asp/bookFindPriceLst.asp?prodId=0312167814]
Y	CO32	Coming Out, Coming Home	LaSala, Michael	Parent / Child / Family	2010	Paperback	Helping families adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child
	FF31	Family Fundamentals	Dong, Arthur	Parent / Child / Family		VHS
Y	FT11	Family Talk  "Coming Out During the Holidays"		Parent / Child / Family		VHS	Coming out during the holidays  Smith, Brad, Jane Ost.
Y	FV11	Family Values	Burke, Phylis	Parent / Child / Family		B	Woman's effort to adopt her partner's child.
Y	FV12	Family Values		Parent / Child / Family	Nov. 1998	VHS	PFLAG of New Jersey.
Y	HS11	Homosexuality, The Secret a Child Dare Not Tell	Cantwell, Mary Ann	Parent / Child / Family		B	Healthy advice on how to deal with a fact of life.
Y	IC21	Is It A Choice?	Marcus, Eric	Parent / Child / Family	1993	Paperback	Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians.
not on cart	IC22	Is It A Choice?		Parent / Child / Family	21 mins	B	Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians.
not on cart	IC23	Is It A Choice?	Marcus, Eric	Parent / Child / Family	21 mins	B	Answers to 300 questions about gays & lesbians.
Y	LM21	Love Makes a Family	Gillespie, Peggy & Kaiser, Gigi	Parent / Child / Family		B	Portraits of LGBT parents & their families.
Y	LE11	Love, Ellen	DeGeneres, Betty	Parent / Child / Family	1999	Paperback	A Mother/Daughter Journey
Y	LS11	Loving Someone Gay	Clark, Don	Parent / Child / Family		B	Gay therapist's guidance to gays, friends & family.
Y	LS12	Loving Someone Gay	Clark, Don	Parent / Child / Family	1997	Paperback	Gay therapist's guidance to gays, friends & family.
Y	NL11	Not Like Other Boys	Shyer, Marlene F.	Parent / Child / Family		B	Mother and son perspectives on a shared journey.
N	NT21	Now That You Know	Fairchild & Hayward	Parent / Child / Family		B	What every parent should know about homosexuality.
Y	NT23	Now That You Know	Fairchild & Hayward	Parent / Child / Family	1979	Paperback	What every parent should know about homosexuality.
Y	NT22	Now That You Know (updated)	Fairchild & Hayward	Parent / Child / Family	updated edition	B	A parent's guide to understanding their gay and lesbian children.
Y	OE11	One In Every Family	Wardlaw, Carole	Parent / Child / Family		B	Questions, answers and true life stories.
Y	OD31	Our Daughters and Sons	PFLAG National	Parent / Child / Family		Booklet	Questions and answers for Paretns of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual people.
Y	OD32	Our Daughters and Sons	PFLAG National	Parent / Child / Family		Booklet	Questions and answers for Paretns of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual people.
Y	OD33	Our Daughters and Sons	PFLAG National	Parent / Child / Family		Booklet	Questions and answers for Paretns of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual people.
Y	OC11	Out of the Closet, Into Our Hearts	Siegel, Laura & Olson, Nancy	Parent / Child / Family		B
Y	PB11	Prayers For Bobby	Aarons, Leroy	Parent / Child / Family		B	Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son.
Y	PB12	Prayers For Bobby	Aarons, Leroy	Parent / Child / Family	1995	Paperback	Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son.
Y	PB15	Prayers For Bobby	Lifetime TV	Parent / Child / Family	2008	VHS	Account of fundamentalist mother's coming out after the suicide of her son. Mentions support of PFLAG for her crisis.
Y	RO41	Ready or Not… They're Gay	Wagner, Paul & Hjordy	Parent / Child / Family	2009	Paperback	Stories from a mid-western family whose two sons are gay.
Y	S-61	Spot	Tuttle, Todd	Parent / Child / Family		Paperback	A large print large illustration story book for very young children. Teaches -- 1) Always be yourself; 2) Treat everyone with respect, especially if they are different; 3) We are all special because we are different.
N	SP11	Straight Parents, Gay Children	Bernstein, Robert	Parent / Child / Family	1999	Paperback	Inspiring Families to live honestly and with greater understanding.
Y	SP12	Straight Parents, Gay Children	Bernstein, Robert	Parent / Child / Family	2003	Paperback	Moving account of coming to terms with daughter's homosexuality, together with dramatic and engrossing stories of other parents who feel the experience has enriched their lives.
Y	TO41	Talking It Over	Miller, Kay Mehl, Ph D.	Parent / Child / Family		B
Y	FF41	Faith in our Families	PFLAG, National	Parent / Child / Family / Religion	©1997, 1999	Booklet	Parents, families and friends talk about religion and homosexuality.
Y	FF42	Faith in our Families	PFLAG, National	Parent / Child / Family / Religion	©1997, 1999	Booklet	Parents, families and friends talk about religion and homosexuality.
Y	AL51	A Letter to Louise	Lowe, Bruce W.	Religion / Spirituality	2001	Booklet	A Biblical Affirmation of Homosexuality
	BF81	Bulletproof Faith	Chellew-Hodge, Candice	Religion / Spirituality	2008	Paperback	A Spiritual Survival Guide for Gay and Lesbian Christians
	CS11	Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality	Boswell, John	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	CL11	Courage to Love	Leckie, Will & Stopfel, Barry	Religion / Spirituality	73 mins	B	6 year battle by gay man to be Episcopal priest. For more backgroun info, click link in this box.
Y	DD11	Do's & Don'ts of Dealing with the Religious Right	Adams, Marc, Tuttle, Todd	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	DD12	Do's & Don'ts of Dealing with the Religious Right	Adams, Marc, Tuttle, Todd	Religion / Spirituality	©2000	Booklet	Authors' experience as fundamentalist Baptists help educate others on how to be most effective when dealing with 'religious right'
Y	EE11	Embracing The Exile	Fortunato, John E.	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	ER11	Equal Rites	Cherry, Kittredge	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	FR51	Fifteen Reasons why I have changed my mind about gays & lesbians in the church	Kreider, Roberta Showalter	Religion / Spirituality	1995	Booklet	One person's summary of her experiences
Y	BT31	For the Bible Tells me so	Karslake, Daniel	Religion / Spirituality	2007	DVD	Confronts the clash between religion and homosexuality.
Y	BT32	For the Bible Tells me so	Karslake, Daniel	Religion / Spirituality	2007	DVD	Confronts the clash between religion and homosexuality.
Y	FS11	Fundamentally Speaking	Tuttle, Todd	Religion / Spirituality	1999	3-ring	Fundamentalist Christianity's Segregation of America
Y	GP11	Gay Priest, An Inner Journey	Boyd, Malcolm	Religion / Spirituality		B	Gay man & priest for 30 yrs. challenges church.
Y	GS11	Gay Soul - Finding the heart of gay spirit and nature	Thompson, Mark	Religion / Spirituality		B
	GS21	Gay Spirit - Myth and Meaning	Thompson, Mark	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	IH21	Is the Homosexual My Neighbor?	Mollenkott, Virginia	Religion / Spirituality	2/24/2004	B	Newly revised classic on love & acceptance.
Y	IH22	Is the Homosexual My Neighbor?	Mollenkott, Virginia	Religion / Spirituality		B	Newly revised classic on love & acceptance.
Y	IH23	Is the Homosexual My Neighbor?	Mollenkott, Virginia	Religion / Spirituality		HC	Newly revised classic on love & acceptance.
Y	LG11	Lamda Gray	Adelman, Jeanne et al.	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	LN11	Lesbian Nuns:  Breaking Silence	Curb, Rosemary & Manahan, Nancy	Religion / Spirituality		B	Stories by nuns describe paths to love & survival.
Y	RA21	NJ Rainbow Coalition - Religious Directory	Hogen, Sarellen	Religion / Spirituality	2002	Booklet	Welcoming Houses of Worship and Meetings - NJ
Y	OT21	Our Tribe - Queer Folks, God, Jesus, and the Bible	Wilson, Rev. Nancy	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	OT22	Our Tribe - Queer Folks, God, Jesus, and the Bible	Wilson, Rev. Nancy	Religion / Spirituality		B
N	PG11	Pastor, I Am Gay	Bess, Rev. Howard	Religion / Spirituality		B	A Baptist minister's stand for acceptance.
Y	QB21	Queer Bible Commentary, The	Guest, Goss, West, Bohache	Religion / Spirituality	2006	Hardcover	The Queer Bible Commentary is the very first of its kind. It brings together the work of many scholars and pastors known for their interest in the areas of gender, sexuality and Biblical studies. Contributors focus specifically on those portions of the Bible that have particular relevance for readers interested in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues. The commentary includes an extensive bibliography that directs the reader to a full range of literature relating to queer interpretation of scripture.
Y	SS41	Sensuous Spirituality	Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey	Religion / Spirituality		B	Helping gay & straight to sexual & spiritual whole.
	SA21	Stranger at the Gate	White, Mel	Religion / Spirituality		B	Evangelical minister, ex-ghost writer for Falwell, chronicles closeted years.
Y	TO31	Take Off the Masks	Boyd, Malcolm	Religion / Spirituality		B	Memoir of a writer, activist, priest/chaplin.
N	TC31	The Children are Free	Rev. Jeff Miner	Religion / Spirituality	2002	Paperback	"Re-examining the Biblical Evidence on Same-Sex Relationships" by the pastor of Jesus Metropolitan Community Church in Indianapolis.
Y	TW11	The Welcoming Congregation	Unitarian Universalist Assoc.	Religion / Spirituality		B
Y	TB61	Twice Blessed - On Being Lesbian or Gay and Jewish	Balka, Christie Rose, Andy	Religion / Spirituality	1989	Paperback	A landmark collection of writings by and about lesbian and gay Jews who are maintaining ties to Jewish tradition and the Jewish community… growing up and coming out, interpreting key bible passages, a mother coming to terms with her son's gay identity, Jewish lesbian parenting, etc.
Y	WB11	What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality	Helminiak, Daniel	Religion / Spirituality		Paperback	Balanced study by Roman Catholic priest. (does god's word in the bible really condemn homosexuals?)
Y	WM21	Women, Men and the Bible	Mollenkott, Virginia Ramey	Religion / Spirituality		Paperback
Y	AN41	As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who was raised as a girl	Colapinto, John	TransGender	2001	Paperback	In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would surgically alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine -- and a total failure.
	L-91	Luna - a novel	Julie Anne Peters	TransGender	2004	Paperback	What would you do if you were born a boy…  but knew in your heart you were really a girl?
Y	ML21	My Life in Pink		TransGender		VHS	A young boy feels like a girl trapped in boy's body.
Y	OT11	Our Trans Children (2nd edition)	PFLAG	TransGender		Pamphlet
Y	OT12	Our Trans Children (2nd edition)	PFLAG	TransGender		Pamphlet
Y	TF21	TransFamily: PFLAG's Transgender Network	PFLAG	TransGender		VHS
Y	TF22	TransFamily: PFLAG's Transgender Network	PFLAG	TransGender		VHS
Y	TF31	Transforming Families	Boenke, Mary	TransGender		B	Real stories about transgendered loved ones.
Y	AR22	A really nice Prom mess	Sloan, Brian	Youth	2005	Paperback	Cameron doesn't want to go to the prom. Then an unexpected kiss changes everything.. Cam leaves the prom, but his night is far from over. Cam's night finally ends in the most unlikely of romances.
Y	GL81	Anti-Gay Bias in American Schools	GLSEN	Youth		Pamphlet	Some statistics, plus "What does GLSEN do?" info
Y	BY21	Be Yourself	PFLAG National	Youth	2002	Pamphlet	Q&A for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Youth
Y	FM11	Free Your Mind	Bass, Ellen & Kaufman, Kate	Youth		B	Practical guide for GLB and their allies.  COPY MISSING. This should be reordered.  It was popular.
Y	GB11	Gay Baby Boom	New York magazine	Youth	78 mins		How kids are shaking up gay life in the city
Y	HU11	Hearing Us Out	Sutton, Roger	Youth		B	Demystifying the GLB experience.  How to survive.
Y	ITL1504A	In The Life: The Principles of Youth	In The Life Media	Youth	Jan-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1504 - LGBT Youth
Y	ITL1504B	In The Life: The Principles of Youth	In The Life Media	Youth	Jan-06	DVD	PBS-TV  In The Life episode 1504 - LGBT Youth
Y	LU54	Lambda Update: Out, Safe & Respected at School	Lambda Legal	Youth	2005	Booklet	Article in quarterly "Lambda | Update" magazine
Y	RO21	Reaching Out to Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Youth	GLSTN - Miami	Youth	21 mins	VHS	Gay, Lesbian and Straight Teachers Network
Y	TT32	Tale of Two Summers	Sloan, Brian	Youth	2006	Hardcover	Two teens blog their summer experiences; one gay and one not.
Y	WS21	What If Someone I Know Is Gay?	Marcus, Eric	Youth		B	FAQ with answers & advice from an expert.
Y	IJ71	I Just Want to Say	Navratilova, Martina	Youth  /  Bullying		VHS	Tennis champion Martina Navratilova hosts a candid and moving discussion of the anti-gay climate faced by youth in our schools and offers suggestions for how educators can work to teach respect for all.
Y	IJ72	I Just Want to Say	Navratilova, Martina	Youth  /  Bullying		VHS	Tennis champion Martina Navratilova hosts a candid and moving discussion of the anti-gay climate faced by youth in our schools and offers suggestions for how educators can work to teach respect for all.
Y	AA11	Angels in America - Part I				VHS
Y	AA12	Angels in America - Part II				VHS
Y	AO21	Assault On Gay America				VHS	Frontline (PBS) correspondent explains roots of homophobia.
Y	BM31	Brokeback Mountain	Universal Studios #26316		2006	DVD	Sweeping epic that explores the lives of two young men, a ranch hand  and a rodeo cowboy, who meetin in the summer of 1963 and unexpectedly forge a lifelong connection. The complications, joys and heartbreak they experience provide a testament to the endurance and power of love. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver emotionally charged, remarkably moving performances.
Y	BM32	Brokeback Mountain	Universal Studios #26316		2006	DVD	Sweeping epic that explores the lives of two young men, a ranch hand  and a rodeo cowboy, who meetin in the summer of 1963 and unexpectedly forge a lifelong connection. The complications, joys and heartbreak they experience provide a testament to the endurance and power of love. Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal deliver emotionally charged, remarkably moving performances.
Y	CC11	Campus Community Guide	NJ Lesbian & Gay Coalition (NJLGC)		1998	Booklet	Student groups; info on gay-friendly HS and college campuses.
Y	CB61	CBS 60 Minutes - segment on gays				VHS	Segment on gays.
Y	IG31	I'm Gay - Two families face their children's "coming out" Out - gay people talk about their lives;				VHS	"Out" is about gay peoples lives.  "I'm Gay" is about 2 families and they plug PFLAG.
Y	IE21	It's Elementary: Talking about gay issues in school.	Chasnoff & Cohen		78 mins	VHS
Y	LA11	Love in Action				VHS	PFLAG's 15th anniversary retrospective.
	N-11	Networking				VHS
Y	OB11	On Being Gay	McNaught, Brian			VHS	A conversation with Brian McNaught
Y	PF11	PBS- Frontline: Assault on Gay America			1999	VHS
Y	SS51	Serving in Silence	Capital Cities - ABC Inc.		1993	VHS
Y	SS71	Strength, Strategy and Our Future	Lambda Legal		Winter 2005	magazine
Y	TA11	Talking About: The Preacher's Son	Adams, Mark			VHS	Narration by author of book of same name by Mark Adams.
Y	TA040720	The Advocate magazine			7/20/2004	magazine	Gay Christian Lovers
Y	TA040817	The Advocate magazine			8/17/2004	magazine
Y	TA040831	The Advocate magazine			8/31/2004	magazine	Gays for President
Y	TA040914	The Advocate magazine			9/14/2004	magazine
Y	TA040928	The Advocate magazine			9/28/2004	magazine	A Gay Teen's Final Hours
Y	TA041012A	The Advocate magazine			10/12/2004	magazine	Gay frat boys
Y	TA041012B	The Advocate magazine			10/12/2004	magazine	Ten best companies for gays to work for.
Y	TA041026A	The Advocate magazine			10/26/2004	magazine	John Kerry makes his case directly to gay and lesbian voters
Y	TA041026B	The Advocate magazine			10/26/2004	magazine	John Kerry makes his case directly to gay and lesbian voters
Y	TA041109	The Advocate magazine			11/9/2004	magazine	The gay soldier who rescued Jessica Lynch
Y	TA041123A	The Advocate magazine			11/23/2004	magazine	How one brave woman's diagnosis will help thousands of lesbians facing breast cancer.
Y	TA041123B	The Advocate magazine			11/23/2004	magazine	How one brave woman's diagnosis will help thousands of lesbians facing breast cancer.
Y	TA041207	The Advocate magazine			12/7/2004	magazine	Gay families gauge the impact of eleven new antigay marriage bans
Y	TA041221	The Advocate magazine			12/21/2004	magazine	Mayors for Marriage
Y	TA061010	The Advocate magazine			10/10/2006	magazine	Jim McGreevy: Happy at Last
Y	TA061024	The Advocate magazine			10/24/2006	magazine	Best of the Web
Y	TG11	The Gables' Rainbow Directory	Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ		2003	Paperback	Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community.
Y	TG12	The Gables' Rainbow Directory	Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ		2003	Paperback	Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community.
Y	TG13	The Gables' Rainbow Directory	Cape May & Atlantic Counties, NJ		2003	Paperback	Your Guide to businesses and organizations that proudly serve the gay and lesbian community.
Y	TN11	The New Loving Someone Gay	Don Clark			B	a gay therapist offers sensitive guidance to gay people and those who care about them
Y	TT21	The Truth About Jane				VHS	Mother & daughter struggle over her being a lesbian.
Y	TT22	The Truth About Jane				VHS	Mother & daughter struggle over her being a lesbian.
Y	TW41	The World of Normal Boys	K.M. Soehnlein			B	Heartfelt tale of growing up different in suburbs.
	TM11	This Month on Network Q (August 1994)				VHS	Gay Games IV and Stonewall 25.